How to Keep Your Dog Calm During Thanksgiving Gatherings

How to Keep Your Dog Calm During Thanksgiving Gatherings

Thanksgiving is all about food, family, and fun, but for your dog—especially a gentle giant—this busy holiday can be a little overwhelming. From doorbells ringing to guests coming and going, new smells, and tempting food at every turn, Thanksgiving can quickly become chaotic for your pup. But don’t worry—with a little preparation, you can help your dog stay calm, comfortable, and happy while still enjoying the festivities.

Here’s a guide to keeping your big pup stress-free and content during Thanksgiving gatherings.


1. Create a Calm Zone for Your Dog

When the house is buzzing with guests, it’s important to provide your dog with a quiet space where they can retreat and recharge. A calm zone gives them a safe spot to escape the noise and commotion.

How to Set Up a Calm Zone:

  • Choose a quiet room or area away from the main activity, like a bedroom or a corner of the house.
  • Add familiar items like your dog’s bed, blankets, and favorite toys to make it feel like their own personal haven.
  • Use a white noise machine or calming music to drown out sounds from the rest of the house.

Pro Tip: Let your guests know about your dog’s calm zone and ask them to respect this space by not disturbing your pup while they’re there.


2. Exercise Before the Guests Arrive

One of the best ways to help your dog stay calm during Thanksgiving is to tire them out beforehand. A long walk, a play session, or even a little training practice can help burn off extra energy so your dog is more relaxed when the festivities begin.

Ideas for Pre-Gathering Exercise:

  • Take your dog on an extended morning walk or hike to help them expend energy.
  • Play a game of fetch in the yard or a quick tug-of-war indoors.
  • For mental stimulation, try a training session to practice commands like “place” or “stay.”

A well-exercised dog is less likely to get overstimulated by the holiday chaos.


3. Provide Mental Stimulation

If your dog isn’t the type to snooze through the action, keep their minds busy with engaging activities like puzzle toys, chews, or treat-dispensing games. Mental stimulation is a great way to help them stay focused and relaxed while you entertain your guests.

Dog-Friendly Activities to Try:

  • Puzzle Toys or Snuffle Mats: Hide treats in a snuffle mat or puzzle toy to keep them entertained for hours.
  • Frozen Treats: Stuff a Kong with peanut butter or plain canned pumpkin and freeze it for a long-lasting distraction.
  • Chews: Offer a durable chew toy or bone to help relieve stress and provide a calming outlet.

These activities will give your dog something to focus on and help prevent boredom or anxiety.


4. Manage Overexcited Behavior

Guests arriving at the door can be a trigger for excitement or anxiety, especially for giant breed dogs who often struggle to manage their size and enthusiasm. Here’s how to manage your dog’s behavior as the festivities begin:

Tips for a Calm Entrance:

  • Use a Baby Gate or Leash: Keep your dog leashed or behind a baby gate when guests arrive to prevent them from rushing the door.
  • Practice Commands: Reinforce basic commands like “sit” and “stay” to keep them under control during busy moments.
  • Limit Greetings: Allow your dog to greet guests one at a time, and only when they’re calm.

If your dog struggles with overexcitement, reward calm behavior with treats or praise to encourage good manners.


5. Monitor Interactions with Guests

Not all guests are comfortable around dogs, and not all dogs are comfortable with guests! Keep an eye on interactions to ensure everyone—two-legged and four-legged—has a good experience.

How to Keep Things Smooth:

  • Supervise your dog around young children or unfamiliar guests who may not know how to interact with them.
  • Set boundaries with your dog if they’re prone to begging or jumping up on people.
  • Give your pup regular breaks in their calm zone to prevent overstimulation.

6. Avoid Food-Related Temptations

The Thanksgiving feast can be a major source of stress for dog owners. The smells are irresistible, and it’s easy for a sneaky bite of something dangerous to end up in your dog’s mouth.

Tips to Manage Food Temptations:

  • No Table Scraps: Remind guests not to feed your dog from the table to prevent bad habits or accidental ingestion of harmful foods.
  • Keep Dangerous Foods Out of Reach: Items like turkey bones, chocolate, onions, and alcohol are toxic to dogs and should be kept well away from their reach.
  • Offer Safe Treats Instead: Prepare a dog-safe “Thanksgiving plate” with plain turkey, sweet potatoes, or green beans so your pup doesn’t feel left out.

7. Use Calming Aids if Needed

If your dog tends to get anxious during big events, consider using calming aids to help them feel more at ease.

Calming Options to Try:

  • Anxiety Wraps: A snug wrap or vest can provide gentle pressure to calm your dog.
  • Calming Sprays or Diffusers: Products like Adaptil release calming pheromones to help reduce stress.
  • Vet-Approved Supplements: Natural calming supplements with ingredients like melatonin or chamomile can be helpful for nervous pups.

Always check with your veterinarian before using any calming products to ensure they’re safe for your dog.


8. Keep an Eye on Your Dog’s Stress Levels

Even with the best preparation, your dog may show signs of stress during a busy Thanksgiving gathering. Watch for these common indicators of anxiety:

  • Panting or excessive drooling
  • Pacing or restlessness
  • Whining or barking
  • Trying to hide or escape

If you notice these signs, guide your dog to their calm zone and give them some quiet time to decompress.


Make Thanksgiving Enjoyable for Everyone

Thanksgiving is about celebrating gratitude, and for dog owners, that gratitude often includes our furry family members. With a little preparation and a lot of love, you can make sure your giant breed dog feels safe and included in the festivities—without getting overwhelmed by the chaos.

📖 Want more holiday tips for your gentle giant? Check out our blog for advice on traveling with your pup, do's and don'ts of table scraps, and more!

What’s your dog’s favorite part of Thanksgiving? Share in the comments below—we’d love to hear about your holiday traditions! 🐾🦃🍂

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